When is it appropriate to change my facebook status, and to what?
Right now it has "in a relationship" but that's not really very accurate.
-change it to "it's complicated". my relationship is in fact complicated and that would the most true thing to put. this mean though that friends, people I went to school with and don't talk to and only added to facebookstalk would know that i am having problems and do I really want them to know that? current friends might ask me what's going on and i don't really feel like telling them if they don't know or don't know about this blog, it's better left unsaid. also is it acutally complicated or in fact over and i am in denial? how about in transition? can that be an option?
-change it to nothing and leave a black space. that way its ambigious. but this basically means, uh oh somehting went down if she isn't claiming anything or somehting is being hidden. so. no good.
(sidenote:i am typing this in between classes at school, and really, are people still wearing Abercrombie and Fitch tshirts? hmm.)
-leave it the same and have people who know what's going on wonder about it and see that i am in denial. this also goes with pretend i am too busy to change it.
I think it goes without saying that anything I do I will immediately delete so it doesn't show up on people's pages as news.